De-mining conflicts

Untangling the knot in the relationship

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You are emotionally triggered by a conflict. It is demanding a lot of attention and energy. This is a signal that there is probably old childhood pain being triggered in you. As a result, you are unable to respond in a mature way to what is occurring. 

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Often you then say or do stupid things. This creates a chain of reaction and counter-reaction.

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At such times, you need someone to dive into the depths with you. What is really going on?

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In systemic conflict resolution, we map out the underlying pattern of the conflict together. We line up all the players in space. Also what has occurred in your personal past. 

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What dynamics are causing you to experience conflict? What needs to be repaired in the system in order to restore harmony? . 

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In a systemic set-up, you often literally put yourself in someone else's shoes. This brings out information you didn't know about. 

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Clarity arises unexpectedly. You know what to do. Often the situation itself changes suddenly. Reality takes a turn you did not expect. The result of this empathy exercise is the feeling of liberation because a knot has been untangled.

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